William ANNETT (m) born April 1839, Seal, Kent, England.
Frances ANNETT (f) born December 1840, Seven Oaks, Kent, England.
James ANNETT (m) born 1842, Seven Oaks, Kent, England.
Henry ANNETT (m) born 05 July 1845, Seven Oaks, England
George ANNETT (m) born 1846, Kemsing, Kent, England
John ANNETT (m) born 24 November 1848, Kemsing, Kent, England
On the passenger list, Mary, William and the five youngest children are noted as ANNITT. Her two oldest children travelled separately as young adults and noted correctly as ANNETT.
During October- November 1859 Mary appears to be having a rough time with several appearances before the Benevolent Society requesting financial assistance due to domestic abuse.
To date, nothing more has been found regarding Mary until January 1884 when she was admitted to the Benevolent Society Asylum. She passed away there 03 April 1884. http://nla.gov.au/nla.news-article63343107
Another twenty-five years, again relying on the charity of the Portland Benevolent Asylum and Hospital, she entered the foreboding building with trepidation and reignited memories. Except for a short episode of absconding[4], this time Mary ANNETT would only leave in a hearse[5].
Twenty-five years earlier Mary had approached them for assistance [1]. That had not been an easy time but there was no other option. Using every penny of her meagre hidden cache to flee her abusive husband and in fear for her life, she had arrived distraught and disheveled, at her oldest daughters place thirty-four miles away .
Daughter Mary-Jane had been married four years and was already expecting the third child. Although her husband was a good man he couldn’t afford to support his wife’s mother and three youngest brothers too.
The only chance and indeed possibility was to apply for relief until she could get on her feet. But life and acceptable practice were so different then. Even with a letter from the Superintendent of Police giving an unfavourable account of her husband [2], Mary was not considered a ‘fit subject for relief’ and the seven pound a week she was temporarily granted was withdrawn five weeks later [3].
"It was terrible embarrassing having all the private business plastered throughout the local paper for all to see ... and William made sure I would never do that again!"